Women Who Provoke Sexual Arousal Outside Committed Relationships
Hypersexualisation is not just a condition that effect males when they are exposed to pornography. Porn's insidious consequences effect females also. Both men and women can become hypersexualised (depending on their thinking processes).
Hypersexualisation is not the only influence that porn creates for women. Even without watching internet porn on designated websites, women react to the porn images rife in Westernised society. Women realise that to have influence as a female in society she must have either one of two things, but preferrably both - wealth power and sexual power. To have the combination of wealth power and sexual power is seen as being able to reach the pinnacle of female power.
Born Powerless
For women who are not born into a wealthy family, the future is uncertain. Young women are generally only able to secure power (financial independence) by marrying into wealth or to achieve wealth through a career or occupation. Just as is the case for men, many women find that occupations do not pay sufficient amounts of money to satisfy their desires. When a female marries her partner and has children, her earning capacity is greatly reduced as she raises the children in unpaid work for decades. Many women stay financially dependent on their male partners for the rest of their adult lives. They are acutely aware of their financial powerlessness. If their husband is not invested emotionally in the marriage, and becomes a porn addict or has an affair, the wife might unexpectedly find herself divorced and unable to provide for herself and any dependant children. This can be a threat over her head, able to erupt and demolish her life at any time in the future. The betrayal of trust also destroys her emotionally so that she is mentally not in a good frame of mind to try to begin a new career in her 40's or later. The act of marrying her male partner is an act of trust and it has life-long consequences for her, not the least of which is financial.
Dr Linda Papadopolous was requested by the Home Secretary of the British Parliament (UK), to provide an independent review of the impact of sexualisation of young girls on violence against women. In her report dated February, 2010, Dr Papadopolous revealed many important findings and made many recommendations to Parliament which if enacted would act to protect women from violence in their hypersexualised society.
Some of the issues raised in Dr Papadopolous' report was that: Young girls were harmed by being sexualised and that they were given the impression that they had to be 'thin and sexy' to be accepted in their communities. They often suffered from eating disorders - anorexia and bulimia, accepted disrespectful and even violent treatment from boys, suffered from a distorted self image.
Women who have grown up in Westernised societies have been thoroughly saturated to accept the falsehood that their value is primarily fixed to their ability to attract a man's sexual attention. Some parents are able to combat these insidious themes and the pressure from society and protect their young girls, perhaps by homeschooling, church groups and pro-active interventions that emphasise the value of a girl is not in her body but in her character and in her integrity. For most females however, this protection is not available and many parents are unaware of the dangers for girls that being raised in a sexualised culture inflicts on the children.
Boys do not escape being influenced in our society, being taught to evaluate females as sexual objects, to be violent to them rather than to protect them and to 'score' masculine 'points' by 'going through' as many females as possible without having emotionally intimate relationships with any of them. This is labelled as toxic masculinity.
Regardless of the harm inflicted on both sexes, males generally still develop to become the main source of power (income producing members) in our society.
Women understand that to be safe and protected and to have their needs met, they need and to use have value in our sexualised society, for a limited time. who a it is the women who receive visual attention that have power over men. begin to equate Women portray their bodies in a way that they intend will sexually arouse men, but then a woman complains when men reacts to her sexual invitations. She pretends that it's not an invitation, but it is. It is an invitation to become sexually aroused and to look at her with adoration & desire - which is what she is seeking. She is endeavouring to extort male approval based on her ability to arouse a man sexually. But the hypersexualised woman only wants to be looked at and admired. That's her reward, her power hit, her dopamine hit. She does not want the follow up of having to give the sexually aroused male an outlet for the desire she created. She complains about 'being undressed with his eyes', 'sexual abuse', being grabbed, being rubbed, being groped, being treated like a sex object etc when she is guilty of intentionally visually raping the males with the intent to sexually arouse them.
While females make continual visual, sexual assaults on men, women don't often consider that their displays will be regarded as being aggressive or as a sexual assault. They have their own objectives in mind which is to receive a dopamine hit in their brain's reward centre that causes them to feel 'good.' Provocatively advertising their sexual availability is the woman's bait - and when men glance interestedly at their provocatively presented body, they take the bait. Reward achieved for the female, however it is not the same 'happy ending' for the male. In contrast to the porn-pushed belief, many men do not appreciate the visual rape. Being forced to participate in sexualised behaviour without mutual consent, is rape.
The reason that porn is a $97 billion dollar industry is that looking at sexualised scenes, is sexually arousing. https://gitnux.org/pornography-industry-statistics/#:~:text=Pornography%20is%20a%20multi%2Dbillion,14%20billion%20in%20annual%20revenue.
Consider a man in a shopping centre. His aim is to simply buy his groceries, but many young women are wearing sexually revealing clothing. Why would women wear sexually provocative clothing when they are not seeking sexual interaction? They are looking to feel valued and perhaps powerful - so the easiest way for females to do that is to target males and to gain sexual approval from them.
Looking at sexual scenes is part of foreplay and commonly necessary for sexual arousal. Women can and do invite the men to engage in foreplay with them, but to go no further. Men who accept the women's invitation then struggle with feelings of inappropriate sexual arousal from viewing the female sexual displays. Men often do not appreciate having pain in their sexual organs from being forced to think about sexual matters leading to sexual arousal when it is not desired. For women to force those visions onto a man's mind is not fair to men. It's also not justfied for a sexually aroused man to act on his hypersexualised response. When a man fortifies his mind, he can train his mind not to see the situation as it really is - a manipulative strategy to take something away from him. His loyalty to his wife, his happiness, his freedom from sexual compulsion, his own integrity - these important factors are not considered off-limits to the provocative women. Often the women brush off their responsibility, suggesting that the man must shoulder all the responsibility for his own sexuality. While that is a very selfish attitude, nonetheless, the man can indeed protect his own integrity. He can soon learn to respond to the sexual manipulation of being visually raped, by knowing and thinking the truth in his mind. The adrenaline is a warning sign -not an attraction. Run from this woman's display. She is trying to use you for her needs, not to meet your sexual needs. That's not sexy. If the man desires to become aroused, that is his choice. It's not a choice that honours his own integrity or that of his wife's honour, but it is a choice. When a man is no longer hypersexualised, he will no longer cherish the desire to play sexual mind games with user-women and he will no longer become sexually aroused by these kind of sexually abusive females.
In pornified societies, most women believe that hypersexualisation is normal sexal behaviour too, so we're not blaming people for not knowing that they've been set up to believe sexual abuse is just normal sexual behaviour. We're just pointing out that porn, in all its forms, is sexual abuse.