The development of compulsion begins with an influence being impressed onto the mind. In its infancy, it's not compulsion. It's just a thought and then a choice. The mind has free will to choose, until it chooses the venemous answer. That choice starts the development of compulsion. Sadly, many people suffering from sexual compulsion were sexually abused as young children and had no way of dealing with the emotional trauma and disorder that originates from such a devastating experience. The nervous system becomes 'awakened' to sexual stimulation that a child has no way of understanding, dealing with or controlling. These children, both boys and girls, can grow up to become sexually confused and are labelled 'promiscuous' or other unkind and shaming words. The effect is more so if there was no remedial assistance available for the child or if the child was not believed or was able to find comfort in any adult.
It's mind control. It's brainwashing. It's telling you something that is completely abnormal, is in fact, normal. And it is all lies.
Just as skilful manipulator Derren Brown repeats suggestions to the people in the two following videos with incredible results, so too does the entire Pimp Empire mentally control huge segments of the world.
Derren Brown designed two incredible experiments to see if he could influence and suggest to his unsuspecting clients, that would perform criminal acts. In the first experiment, 'the Heist' he was successfully able to create a desire to carry out armed robbery in his unsuspecting clients at a rate of 75%. Similarly, in his experiment, 'the Assassin,' Derren Brown revealed that another unsuspecting client was able to be influenced to attempt to commit murder by using similar techniques.
When studied, it appears that these strategies employed by Derren Brown to persuade, influence and suggest are very similar to the strategies used to create a desire for porn in normal males (and more recently females) by the porn merchants.
A wise, religious woman, EG White, stated that human beings should 'guard well the avenues of the soul' (Patriarchs and Prophets, page 460, and Messages to Young People, page 285) but when this is not done, the mind is unprotected from those who wish to manipulate it for their own gain. The porn merchants are such enemies to the soul and have become experts at manipulating the minds of countless millions.
Lies have been believed that must be exposed or else their power will continue to enslave men and women and create misery and ultimately pathetic, human wrecks.
Hypnotism - the Power of Suggestion
Strategies to Create Sexual Compulsions - Porn Addicts
Suggestion - Use the person's natural susceptibility to suggestion (hypnosis) – make a suggestion that something is good, desirable, healthy, and that you are entitled to it. A lie is necessary to make this work. The persuader/manipulator ties to create a desire in their target for their product based on the lie that the target victim needs or will value the product. So the targeted person is influenced to believe a certain 'truth.' In porn the merchants want their viewers to believe that naked young women are sexy, not injured women who have lost their dignity and who were often victims of trafficking or sexual abuse as children, or who are narcissists trying to get a 'hit' out of men telling her she is 'beautiful' when they should be pitying her undignified state. So the target is introduced to 'soft' porn where the porn performer is posed as smiling, friendly, as if she desires the viewer, as if she is sexually hungry for the viewer. She wants him and him alone (in his mind). She is not doing it for money but because she finds HIM sexually arousing. At the same time, the porn merchants must train their target to believe another lie and that is that their victim's wife/partner is boring, ugly, can’t compare, can’t satisfy. The porn merchants can't be successful if the men all love and are satisfied with their wives. Another lie that the intended target must believe is that sex is separate from love when in reality sex is only possibly through a love connection. So a belief must be developed so that the viewer will imagined he is loved, accepted, and valued when watching a porn performer.
Anchoring – anchoring bonds a physical or mental stimulus to an emotional response. It could be a tap on the knee or shoulder which when anchored ignites a memory or desire for something. In porn the anchors are many, but seeing a female and instantly sexually evaluating her on her ability to arouse the target is imperative to the success of the porn merchants' plan as it results in the target becoming hypersexualised. Another powerful anchor is orgasm. A negative feeling can also be used as an anchor. When a target is feeling emotionally rejected or sexually frustrated, he can be anchored to porn images which is experienced as a desire to try to fill that need through masturbating to porn images. The target has already accepted the belief that the porn performer wants and desires him not only sexually, but as a valued person. When the target is feeling unloved, unvalued or emotionally upset, or is sexually frustrated, he begins to think of how much better he felt with the porn performer who offered him love and who desired him. The anchoring is reapplied every time the target experiences orgasm when his mind is focused on the porn image instead of during loving sexual connection with his wife/partner.
Triggering emotional states/responses – When the imposed (false) beliefs are accepted and the physical/mental anchors are in place, then the barrage of porn images which the porn merchants ensure are placed everywhere, cause the target to become increasingly hypersexualised and responsive to a point where he doesn't understand how he became to be 'dependent' on porn. He has developed a compulsion or obsession with porn and it takes over his life, destroying it and many, if not all his relationships, effecting his employment, his finances, his spirituality and his self-worth. He is supposed to be feeling sexually satisfied and happy, but he is in perpetual sexual frustration, suffering from erectile dysfunction and very miserable indeed.
These three strategies were used by Satan in the Garden of Eden also. In Genesis 3:1-6, Satan (the serpent) is seen to have followed the same pattern.
Suggestion: suggested a (false) belief that the fruit would benefit her. This lie created a desire in Eve. (Fruit was suggested as being good for food, able to make a person as wise as God, tasting good. It is highly likely that Satan chose a time when Eve was already experiencing hunger as before a meal).
Anchoring: – sense of taste (desire to taste it) and sense of sight (enjoyment from looking at it); sense of touch (desire to handle it)
Triggering: triggering an emotional state – handed Eve the fruit and she euphoric and invited her husband, Adam, to join her in her 'happiness.'
Becoming Free of Compulsion
Breaking free of compulsion involves undoing the mind control that was done to you. We must:
learn that the previously believed 'truth' was a lie;
destroy the anchor that is attached to the trigger and;
avoid the trigger until the new connection is extremely robust. When the new truth takes effect, the trigger will appear repugnant, uninteresting and a pity for those entrapped will take the place of the adrenaline-charged emotional instability.
Please see the withdrawal process where specific steps are outlined to help break the compulsion. (A link appears in the button below).