MindRewind is non-destructive, Love-based community service group. It is non-blaming, non-shaming, non-judgmental toward all victims of the multi-billion dollar sexual abuse industry regardless of how they demonstrate their hypersexuality - (porn 'addicts,' porn performers). Partners of those effected are also offered support and pathways to healing.
The true Creator or Source of Life, is Love. Any destructive force is not creative and is not Love. Loves unselfishly gives to benefit all.
Sexual abuse is disguised and paraded as normal sexual behaviour, but it is completely devoid of love. Porn is a tool used by the sexual abuse industry. It takes from others for selfish reasons.
Human beings thrive and are happiest when they receive and are able to give love.
Human beings suffer and die prematurely in the absence of love (suicide or homocide). The Sexual Abuse Industry uses porn to ensure there is an absence of love between partners. Unhappy, emotionally injured humans make the best, long-term customers.
The Creator/Source of Love is truth. The Creator/Love invented sex and it's amazing. It's not a solo sport or entertainment. It is the loving physical communication of emotional intimacy between two committed partners. Love motivates a person to give of themselves emotionally and physically, in order to make their partner happy.
Porn pretends to be the truth about sex, but it's fake information. Porn teaches that it is normal to take the most sacred intimacy from others without concern for their victim's welfare - to use and abuse others sexual organs for our their own 'benefit.'
Real sexual arousal is motivated emotional intimacy. It is part of genuinely loving a permanent partner. It is sexually exclusive to that partner and all other forms of sexual outlets are willingly and mutually excluded from the relationship.
Porn provokes sexually abusive (selfish) behaviour. Sexual arousal is motivated by a fear of emotional intimacy arising from emotional injury. Instead of being motivated by love, porn convinces the user that selfish sexual behaviour is 'normal' and that the users have a 'high libido' when in reality, they are suffering from hypersexualisation. Porn 'sex' requires adrenaline (stress hormone) to fire up a sexual response to multiple/varied partners. Habitual, compulsive porn use is predominantly a stress-management behaviour, an escape from emotional intimacy, an anaesthetising/numbing outlet, that has been anchored to sexual arousal. When stressed, bored, upset, burdened - the 'desire' to 'do porn' is activated with strong compulsion. It's often not about a desire for sex at all.
Love anchors souls together in love and concern for each other.
Fear (the absence of Love) anchors sexual arousal/inflammation to stressful situations and the adrenaline response (dangerous/risky/daring sexual behaviours).
An intense, chemical/neurological bonding process occurs when committed, loving partners participate in sexual behaviour - in an atmosphere of emotional intimacy. There is strong desire to be emotionally connected and thus to share physical, sexual joy - but there is no compulsion.
Being hypersexualised fuels porn 'addiction' and those who suffer from a porn 'addiction' are fed the lie that being hypersexualised is the normal male condition. The 'compulsion' to achieve orgasm to gain 'relief from hormonal stress/sexual arousal/emotional stress/boredom' is the motivation for sexual activity. It's not sharing or giving - the focus is on taking the sexual opportunity, before you 'miss out.'
Sexual abuse is disguised and paraded as normal sexual behaviour, but it is completely devoid of love. Porn is a tool used by the sexual abuse industry. It takes from others for selfish reasons.
Human beings thrive and are happiest when they receive and are able to give love.
Human beings suffer and die prematurely in the absence of love (suicide or homocide). The Sexual Abuse Industry uses porn to ensure there is an absence of love between partners. Unhappy, emotionally injured humans make the best, long-term customers.
The Creator/Source of Love is truth. The Creator/Love invented sex and it's amazing. It's not a solo sport or entertainment. It is the loving physical communication of emotional intimacy between two committed partners. Love motivates a person to give of themselves emotionally and physically, in order to make their partner happy.
Porn pretends to be the truth about sex, but it's fake information. Porn teaches that it is normal to take the most sacred intimacy from others without concern for their victim's welfare - to use and abuse others sexual organs for our their own 'benefit.'
Real sexual arousal is motivated emotional intimacy. It is part of genuinely loving a permanent partner. It is sexually exclusive to that partner and all other forms of sexual outlets are willingly and mutually excluded from the relationship.
Porn provokes sexually abusive (selfish) behaviour. Sexual arousal is motivated by a fear of emotional intimacy arising from emotional injury. Instead of being motivated by love, porn convinces the user that selfish sexual behaviour is 'normal' and that the users have a 'high libido' when in reality, they are suffering from hypersexualisation. Porn 'sex' requires adrenaline (stress hormone) to fire up a sexual response to multiple/varied partners. Habitual, compulsive porn use is predominantly a stress-management behaviour, an escape from emotional intimacy, an anaesthetising/numbing outlet, that has been anchored to sexual arousal. When stressed, bored, upset, burdened - the 'desire' to 'do porn' is activated with strong compulsion. It's often not about a desire for sex at all.
Love anchors souls together in love and concern for each other.
Fear (the absence of Love) anchors sexual arousal/inflammation to stressful situations and the adrenaline response (dangerous/risky/daring sexual behaviours).
An intense, chemical/neurological bonding process occurs when committed, loving partners participate in sexual behaviour - in an atmosphere of emotional intimacy. There is strong desire to be emotionally connected and thus to share physical, sexual joy - but there is no compulsion.
Being hypersexualised fuels porn 'addiction' and those who suffer from a porn 'addiction' are fed the lie that being hypersexualised is the normal male condition. The 'compulsion' to achieve orgasm to gain 'relief from hormonal stress/sexual arousal/emotional stress/boredom' is the motivation for sexual activity. It's not sharing or giving - the focus is on taking the sexual opportunity, before you 'miss out.'
The Sexual Abuse Industry shapes society (both males and females) to objectify human beings. Emotional intimacy is their enemy. Porn is designed to prevent the bonds of emotional Intimacy from developing. Society is brain-washed to believe that emotional intimacy in a stealthy attempt by females to 'trap' a man into marriage and that any normal, 'red-blooded male' will shun emotional intimacy and connection.
The unconsciously transmitted principle of the Sexual Abuse Industry is that 'sex' is a commodity which can be purchased. It is a human 'right.' 'Sex' is a promoted as a sport and as entertainment. The Sexual Abuse Industry invites everyone to be participants in the sport either actively (prostitutes, strippers) or as more passive spectators, (viewing porn and participating through our eyes, mind and masturbation). The Sexual Abuse Industry insists that 'sex' is a right to which everyone is narcissisticly entitled.
The emotionally intimate, relational aspect of normal sexual behaviour is completely ignored. Brain-washed society becomes pornified by adopting these principles and the sexually abusive to its members. Pornified society informs its members that the primary purpose of females is to provide males with 'sex.'
Normal intimate relationships are formed when emotional intimacy is nurtured and slowly developed through conversation and shared experiences which allows the formation of trust between partners. Partners gain a sense of being valued by each other. The basis of trust provides safety between the partners. The sexual response is based on a genuine concern for the partner. In sexually abusive relationships, the sexual arousal is based on fear (the absence of Love) and anchored to adrenaline-creating experiences/situations. Contemplation of 'risky and dangerous sexual activities' raise adrenaline levels and stimulate the sexual organs to respond. This is a reported occurrence in sexual serial killers, rapists who achieve a feeling of being powerful after committing adrenaline-fuelled dangerous sexual activities.
During sexual activity, a chemical process involving oxytocin causes a non-cognitive chemical bonding to occur especially in the female. Oxytocin works to increase trust through prompting vulnerability and personal disclosure to gain emotional intimacy. This is wonderful if it occurs with a trustworthy marriage/long term partner, but can be catastrophic if it occurs with an abusive, uncaring hook-up partner or a series of such partners.
The unconsciously transmitted principle of the Sexual Abuse Industry is that 'sex' is a commodity which can be purchased. It is a human 'right.' 'Sex' is a promoted as a sport and as entertainment. The Sexual Abuse Industry invites everyone to be participants in the sport either actively (prostitutes, strippers) or as more passive spectators, (viewing porn and participating through our eyes, mind and masturbation). The Sexual Abuse Industry insists that 'sex' is a right to which everyone is narcissisticly entitled.
The emotionally intimate, relational aspect of normal sexual behaviour is completely ignored. Brain-washed society becomes pornified by adopting these principles and the sexually abusive to its members. Pornified society informs its members that the primary purpose of females is to provide males with 'sex.'
Normal intimate relationships are formed when emotional intimacy is nurtured and slowly developed through conversation and shared experiences which allows the formation of trust between partners. Partners gain a sense of being valued by each other. The basis of trust provides safety between the partners. The sexual response is based on a genuine concern for the partner. In sexually abusive relationships, the sexual arousal is based on fear (the absence of Love) and anchored to adrenaline-creating experiences/situations. Contemplation of 'risky and dangerous sexual activities' raise adrenaline levels and stimulate the sexual organs to respond. This is a reported occurrence in sexual serial killers, rapists who achieve a feeling of being powerful after committing adrenaline-fuelled dangerous sexual activities.
During sexual activity, a chemical process involving oxytocin causes a non-cognitive chemical bonding to occur especially in the female. Oxytocin works to increase trust through prompting vulnerability and personal disclosure to gain emotional intimacy. This is wonderful if it occurs with a trustworthy marriage/long term partner, but can be catastrophic if it occurs with an abusive, uncaring hook-up partner or a series of such partners.
The Sexual Abuse Industry financiers - the 'Porn Pushers' actively attempt to prevent the development of trust between partners. Where trust exists, porn is used to destroy that trust. This is the purpose of porn and the wider sexual abuse industry and it achieves this purpose by convincing human beings that they have no value other than that of the sexual appeal of their body. Human beings must be devalued. Primarily women are valued only for their body as appraised by men; while men are valued on the size of their genitals and wallet, status, income-earning potential.
When a person learns that they are not valued as a whole person, but only for the value of their 'flesh/body' then trust cannot exist in that relationship. Thus porn Inhibits the Formation of Emotionally Connected, Long-Term loving, respectful relationships that are based on mutual trust. No human being enjoys being used.
This is the sexual abuse industry's modis operadi. Porn is their tool, the gateway for them to secure long-term paying 'customers' (porn & sex 'addicts') and thus achieve control of society's minds and finances.
When a person learns that they are not valued as a whole person, but only for the value of their 'flesh/body' then trust cannot exist in that relationship. Thus porn Inhibits the Formation of Emotionally Connected, Long-Term loving, respectful relationships that are based on mutual trust. No human being enjoys being used.
This is the sexual abuse industry's modis operadi. Porn is their tool, the gateway for them to secure long-term paying 'customers' (porn & sex 'addicts') and thus achieve control of society's minds and finances.
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Addictions are Not Voluntary
You can decide to start, but stopping is not so easy.
Recovery
The normal sexual response can be returned quite quickly and permanently. This declaration is based on science and in many years of supporting victims of porn (hypersexualised) recover/rehabilitate.
The mind needs to heal.
The brain needs to heal.
The body needs to heal.
The following points are considered vital to permanent recovery.
Understanding:
The mind needs to heal.
The brain needs to heal.
The body needs to heal.
The following points are considered vital to permanent recovery.
Understanding:
- what sex really is;
- how porn mis-educates and brain-washes society, including dedicated church members, about sex;
- how porn takes advantage of both men & women's emotional injuries;
- that viewing porn reinforces toxic lies about sexuality;
- how repeatedly viewing porn causes the viewer and the porn performers to focus on meeting their own needs by taking from others. Porn teaches human beings that it is 'normal' sexual behaviour' to devalue other human beings - ie to dehumanise them, and to depersonalise them and to use and abuse them without conscience;
- how repeatedly viewing porn causes serious neurological changes in the brain (observable on brain scans), which is a condition called 'hypersexualsation' (often called porn 'addiction');
- the mental and neurological changes caused by hypersexualisation can be reversed;
- that emotional injuries create a tendency and desire to escape from feeling emotional pain;
- that fear is the underlying emotion that fuels the addiction to porn and sexually abusive behaviours;
- that an inability to form trusting, emotionally intimate relationships can be traced back to a fear of being abandoned, rejected or betrayed - typically by a parent/care-giver;
- that the Truth about Love will set victims of porn 'addiction' free because Love truly does 'casts out fear' (fear of not being good enough; fear of not being loved and of needing the approval of others etc; hating oneself and others based on 'works/behaviour');
- that recovery and rehabilitation is a delightful, freeing experience that all types of victims (addicts, their partners and porn performers) can and do experience;
- that there is no shame in true sex and there is no shame in being trapped by the multi-billion dollar sexual abuse industry that takes advantage of a person's emotional injuries;
God Does Not
Shame/Blame/Condemn
the Hypersexualised
(Porn 'Addicts/Victims)
Personal assistance (phone, email) is offered free of charge.
Support for injured hypersexualised victims and their partners too.
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Use the "Contact Us" form.
No shaming, no blaming, no judging. The Creator - Love - gives no example of any of those selfish traits.
Support for injured hypersexualised victims and their partners too.
Anonymous okay.
Use the "Contact Us" form.
No shaming, no blaming, no judging. The Creator - Love - gives no example of any of those selfish traits.
