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Porn Destroys Integrity
Porn shames people. It also targets those who already carry a burden of shame from their childhood. When men and women participate in porn, they act against their own consciences. "This is wrong, but I'm going to do it anyway." That's not acting with integrity. A man/woman with integrity says, "That's wrong and I'm not going to do it." The man and woman who act with integrity, feel good about their decisions and about who they are as a person. Loyal, honest, dependable. They can 'like' themselves.
Those who act without integrity and who rebel against 'authority' can't share that experience. In fact they experience more shame about their own value and might even feel worthless because of what they regard as their moral weakness. Porn targets these people.
Porn isolates people.
That's its specialty.
Porn trains the mind of those who view it to avoid social relationships and emotional intimacy. This is not an optional extra that porn offers its customers. Porn stresses relationships because it interferes with emotional intimacy and connection.
Porn ruins sex.
Eventually porn causes many men to be unable to 'perform' with even the 'hottest' partner. Porn-induced ED (Erectile Dysfunction) is a medical condition that is caused by viewing quantities of porn over time. Even if young men, the brain undergoes physical changes that anchors his sexual arousal system onto pixelated images so that he doesn't have the usual response to a woman in his bedroom. Rather he 'needs' to watch an image on his computer screen. Most men don't appreciate that 'achievement.'
Porn deceives its victims.
Many men want to have 'the best of both worlds' - porn sex and physical partner sex.
To the dismay of such men, the human mind and body don't work that way.
A man might want to 'do' porn, but he certainly doesn't like being unable to perform with his wife or even another woman who is ready and waiting to be physically intimate with him. The man finds the woman sexually arousing and his mind is all set to action, but then his biological mechanism malfunctions resulting in incredible embarrassment for both parties. The woman/wife likely feels insulted and rejected as if her body is not 'good enough.' The man is stunned and confused as he never experienced a malfunction before. Porn-induced ED. Blame it on the porn.
Porn is a Social Wipeout
There are so many more negatives to participating in porn such as its involvement with human sex-trafficking, pedophilia and child pornography, violence against women and minorities. Despite all the evidence, the porn pushers, the porn merchants, still push the old, eroded 'porn is harmless fun' angle on its targets.
There are so many more negatives to participating in porn such as its involvement with human sex-trafficking, pedophilia and child pornography, violence against women and minorities. Despite all the evidence, the porn pushers, the porn merchants, still push the old, eroded 'porn is harmless fun' angle on its targets.
Secrets and Shame
Boys and men are purposely targeted by the porn merchants. A man generally has porn forced into his line of vision by the age of 8 years. Many boys become addicted to porn from the first visual-rape incident. The child deserved to have been protected from the assault. His body was not prepared and neither was his mind. Sadly, most boys have not been prepared for porn to be thrust onto them. They don't know what to do or how to respond emotionally, mentally or physically and they often suffer from cognitive dissonance. They think in two opposite ways about the experience. They might have enjoyed the sensation felt in their bodies, but been horrified at the images they saw of adult men and women's naked bodies, having a sense of guilt and confusion. They often develop shame over having enjoyed something that they believed was wrong and that they knew had to be kept as a secret.
Integrity
Porn doesn't have to continue to rob a man from being a man who he admires. He can become the man he's always wanted to be. The freedom and self-respect that comes from truly becoming free from the compulsion of porn is worth the effort.