Presentation on 25 April 2021
The presentation notes will be published here after the Australasian delivery is given on 25 April 2021.
Hypersexualisation which is often believed to be 'normal male sexual behaviour' or 'high libido' or just being a 'red-blooded male' can result in compulsive, habitual, frequent masturbation and porn 'use' (i.e. woman sexual abuse). Such abnormal sexual behaviour can and does cause a lack of testosterone due to the brain's testosterone receptors becoming resistant. It is a known fact that a man who is habituated to masturbating to porn will have a disturbed sexual response - erectile dysfunction (ED), when as a hypersexualised man, he attempts to interact sexually with a female partner. After 3 weeks and up to 3 months after going 'porn free' and 'masturbation free' the formerly hypersexualised man's level of bio-available testerone increases and the brain's testosterone receptors are again available to the serum testosterone and the normal sexual function returns.
Blood tests on at least one person who has reversed his hypersexualised state and who has become 'porn free' and 'trigger free' over 2 years, demonstrates a continual increase of serum testosterone. The average male's total testosterone peaks [mean (2.5–97.5 percentile)] at 15.4 (7.2–31.1) nmol/L at an average age of 19 years, and falls in the average case [mean (2.5–97.5 percentile)] to 13.0 (6.6–25.3) nmol/L by age 40 years (reference: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4190174/pdf/pone.0109346.pdf). The rehabilitated man's test results in the photo show a testosterone level of 38.9 nmol/L - a higher level than the average 19 year old male.
Hypersexualisation causes the testosterone receptors in the brain to become resistant to testosterone and the testosterone then builds up in the blood where it is considered to be in excess and converted to oestrogen. The male body is shaped by oestrogen just as is the female body and the male body can begin to develop male breasts (gynecomastia), a rounder body shape as fat is laid down (obesity). Not exactly the outcome that the sexual abuse industry - the porn pushers from Pimp Empire pretend to offer its male consumers.
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I Trust Myself
For the first time in my life, I actually trust myself! For the first time in my life, I can internally say, "Get lost" to any outside toxic influences that the porn merchants put in my view. I am amazed at the strength of my willpower now because all my life I realise I have been disempowered. It is so beautiful to be free and have self-dignity, self-confidence, the respect of my wife and the respect for myself. Porn in all its forms erodes our moral convictions until we become hypersexualised to the point of feeling powerless and hopeless. Hypersexualisation is not normal sexuality. It is an abberant, abusive, artificially manipulated sexual condition. Being hypersexualised deceives a man (or woman) into believing they are super-sexed, with a naturally high libido but this is a deception. It's just the effect of seriously unbalanced neurotransmitters and the brain's desperate attempt to detoxify and manage the excessive dopamine and adrenaline assault. Hypersexualisation causes compulsive, habitual sexually abusive behaviour.
Now, I'm not in that state any longer. I'm free and I'm going to stay that way. It's amazing how just finding out the truth about the sexual abuse industry and how it causes hypersexualisation and that condition to be accepted as normal, allowed me to start my journey to freedom.
The truth has set me free and it can free you too.
Freedom Feels So Good
My wife wrote this to me and read it to me as we celebrated our wedding anniversary at a little bush chapel where we celebrate our anniversary every year. This year we gave each other a new wedding ring as a kind of re-bonding. The note from my wife means so much to me. When most marriages are breaking down as time goes on, our marriage just keeps getting better as we grow closer in intimacy. I am only sharing it because I hope it might help other people decide to escape the sexual abuse industry and heal their emotional wounds through true emotional intimacy with their wife and not with the pseudo-fake fix from porn that pretends to offer intimacy when it is really sexual abuse. Physical connection without emotional intimacy is abuse. Here's what my beautiful wife wrote to me. She said I can share it here.
You are so unique. You are so special. You are the husband I’ve always wanted but thought didn’t exist. I have put my trust in you and I want you to feel safe trusting me. I treasure how you maintain the sacred circle of our intimate relationship and how you defend us from outside attacks. Your loyalty to me is a gift of unspeakable value. Your loyalty protects and guards my dignity as your wife and I have the greatest respect for you because of your loyalty. When I see you demonstrate your loyalty to me I feel safe and secure in your love. I know that you are on guard to protect us because you value me and you value what we have together. You value me. That knowledge is most precious because it satisfies the deep part of my heart that longs so much to be valued by you and to joined with you. You have not rejected me, nor abandoned me. You fill my heart’s needs to belong, to be valued. I feel loved and the longing in my heart is fulfilled. How precious you are to me. The man of my dreams and I thank God for you from the core of my heart.
I’m so happy to be with you and never want to be separated from you. I’m proud of who you are, amazed at your life’s journey and how God has led you to become the truly wonderful person you are today...... I’m so happy of who we are becoming as a unified couple because we are growing up in love together. We are true partners, like peas in a pod – not the same person, but very much the same personalities and we are growing more and more together as we go on our journey. We're growing in love. The wedding celebrant says, ‘What God has joined together, let no-one separate.’ What can separate us from the love of God? Nothing. No-one. No-one can separate us from loving each other and from being emotionally and spiritually joined together for eternity – no-one except us. We can choose to separate or we can choose to stay because God gave us that freedom of choice – to be united or to be separated. We are not forced to be together, but we’re together because we long to be together and love to be together. I never want to be separated from you. It’s so lovely to feel so comfortable with you, because you show me respect, you care about what makes me happy, you ensure my dignity is protected, you accept me and value me. Thank you for being who you are. I treasure the love that you give me.
I want you to feel always loved, always accepted by me and always to know how much I treasure you, respect you and admire you and the work you are doing to help others. You are a my one and only husband, my life companion and closest friend. I love you very much. I feel that I don’t have adequate words to let you know how important you are to me but please know that you are loved.